The funny thing is the Spike/Angel thing has totally been confirmed in canon and by Joss but a lot of fans just don't want to believe it.

Although, as a poly kinda gal, I will never choose divisiveness in specific pairings. The more the merrier, I say!

You are so right!! I can never pick ONE favourite of anything, so I tend to love all the pairings. Some of my favourite fanfic I've read recently has been Buffy/Angel/Spike! Definitely the more the merrier!